Everything Seems Impossible Until It Doesn’t

Last night, I wanted to learn how to make Amazon A+ content for my Come Again series, but graphics, charts, and diagrams confuse me. I’d already put in a full day of work in the bakery, so when I found myself staring off into space, useless, I put myself to bed.

Right after dinner.

It’s been a while since I took to my bed. My bout with insomnia and anxiety left me afraid to take naps or go to bed too early. Waking up at 2 am with every single thing on my mind sucks ass. But I’m better now, so I went to bed with a pile of comfort books and The Bear. (I fell asleep during S2 E6 a few weeks ago, and when I finished the series, it was clear I needed to review.)

Indulging myself was GLORIOUS, and today, I RULED A+ content. Instead of being a chore, it was fun. I not only created content for 3 books, I also corresponded with Amazon KDP and Author Central, AND I did another hard thing I’d been putting off for ages.

Everything seems impossible until it doesn’t.

If you are the type of person who never gives yourself a break, and you are sitting in the harness, beating your own ass backward, and getting NOWHERE…go to bed. Or outside. Or watch TV. Or read a book. Give yourself a damn break, and make it longer than however long you think it SHOULD take you to recover.

Even better, learn to do that every day BEFORE you are sitting there, glassy-eyed and drooling and wondering if just one more cup of coffee will fix you up. If you can learn to put as much effort into self-care as you put into work, you’ll be INVINCIBLE!

Rest like it’s your JOB.

And please enjoy the new, improved cover for SoloPlay! I always wanted this series to have fun covers, and I really love this look.

And can I get an A+ for my A+ content?!

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The Dreidel Do-Over is LIVE!

Oh what fun it is to ride…on a Hanukkah Harbor Cruise!

In the spirit of Jewish Joy and Holiday Miracles, Jessica Topper and I bring you the MATZO BALLERS HANUKKAH ROMANCE series!

Whether you’re Jewish and looking for YOUR holiday read, curious about Hanukkah and want an easy way to learn about latkes, or just want a couple of quick, fun reads, we’ve got you covered.

Eventually, we’ll put them in print – and an eight-book box set. For now, we’ve got e-books available on Amazon, Barnes & Noble, Kobo, Apple Books, and Google (The Dreidel Do-Over) and Amazon, Barnes & Noble, Kobo, Apple Books, and Google (The Hanukkah Hook-Up)!

I’ll be posting recipes from the books soon, but for now, I’m rolling around in the Hanukkah joy – and Hanukkah mischief!

“Strip dreidel? Are you kidding?” Was he proposing they potentially get naked together on their first not-even-a-date?

Talia Katz, The Dreidel Do-Over

Happy Hanukkah to all, and to all a GOOD night! 😉

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Jew Gotta Bestie, Too?

Once upon a time, I was standing in the Hebrew school pick-up line admiring this hot mama with a wild mane of salt and pepper curls. I’d always planned to go silver whenever it happened (like my Mom did), but nope. And, as I stick straight-haired girl, I envy curls. Hell, I envy hair with body, period.

I have no idea what my first words to Jessica Topper were, but I think they were probably something like this: “Hey, this is probably a weird thing to say, but damn you have fantastic hair. I’m jealous.”

(The pic of us together was taken at my middle kid’s bat mitzvah! Jess has great hair, right?!))

TLDR: The first two books in the Matzo Ballers Hanukkah Romance series release in ONE WEEK!

We then discovered we have a lot in common. (She tells that story better.) We set up a playdate for our same-age daughters. Then I blew off hanging out with her during said playdate because I was on deadline. Jess being Jess (forgiving of my faults, a collector of info, a WRITER) wanted to know more, so we reconnected after I finished the book.

It wasn’t long before I learned Jess was writing the book that became LOUDER THAN LOVE, a recluse rocker/widowed librarian kick-ass love story, and I harassed her until she finished it. If you haven’t read it, you should. Everyone should!

Jess and I have been through some tough times these past few years. We lean on each other, and I often refer to her as my “emotional support human.” Writing is difficult work, and one of the most challenging parts for both of us is prioritizing our words until we reach THE END.

NOT THIS YEAR!

As soon as I handed in ONE NIGHT STAND EVER AFTER, we sat down at my kitchen table every Sunday (and many hours in between) and hammered out the concept for an eight-book Hanukkah romance series!

Dude, the only thing more fun than being in the writing zone…is being in the writing zone with someone who dumps gas in your tank to keep you going.

I’m grateful for my writing bestie, and we can’t wait to share THE DREIDEL DO-OVER and THE HANUKKAH HOOK-UP with you next week!

Want to join the OG Matzo Ballers on their yearly Hanukkah harbor cruise? Want to experience Manhattan like never before with friends who’ve become chosen family?

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The Dreidel Do-Over Coming in December!

A couple of years ago, my friend Jessica Topper and I started tossing around ideas for a Hanukkah romance series. But I was in the middle of writing the Unforgettable Fire series, changing jobs, reframing my life, etc..

She was writing Pretty Wreck, her winery book, and also doing fifty thousand other things.

So all we did was talk…

Until THIS YEAR!

Lo and behold, I handed in ONE NIGHT STAND EVER AFTER (the final book in the Unforgettable Fire series), and she finished Pretty Wreck. In the spirit of YOLO and why the hell not, we rolled right into writing the Matzo Ballers Hanukkah Romance series!

I often refer to Jess as my “emotional support human.” As a former librarian and a hardcore researcher at heart, she’s my go-to for the first step of pretty much everything. If she doesn’t know, she knows how to find out, and she’s so kind that she never makes me feel like I’m asking the dumbest (or laziest) question possible-even when I am. She knows which bridge is the best one to take when we go to Canada (and how to cross the border without getting strip searched). She understands the NYC subway system. She’s the Empathy to my Achiever, and we bond in our Intellection balconies (and basements).

How did we kindle our decade-plus friendship turned literary collaboration?

At Congregation Shir Shalom in line to pick up our kids from Hebrew school, OF COURSE. She has a fabulous mane of salt and pepper curls, and I’m the type of person who compliments random strangers on great hair days. It was meant to be! (Jess would have a relevant Yiddish word for kismet.)

When our kids became friends and we set up a play date, Jess and I discovered we share a love of writing, yoga, coffee, carrot cream cheese muffins, wine, cheese, and pretty much everything except fresh berries. I love them. She hates them. But she tolerates the sight of them because I love them. And I love HER for that!

But for all our simpatico-vibes, we have VERY different writing styles, so we NEVER thought collaborating would work. But sharing a world and writing our own books, working together and encouraging each other, and eating carrot cream cheese muffins and plotting out loud with our mouths full? HELL YES.

We wrote feverishly before and after our day jobs, and we gathered at my kitchen table (horking breakfast casseroles and swilling Nespresso) on Sundays to share ideas and keep the fire lit.

We had a BALL.

Right up until October 7th, when Hamas attacked Israel. Our hearts are breaking for Palestine and Israel, and we struggled with whether to release such light and fun books amidst horror and devastation.

Ultimately, we decided the world could use as much love – and light – as possible.

So I’m thrilled to share that THE HANUKKAH HOOK-UP and THE DREIDEL DO-OVER will release on December 5th, just before Hanukkah begins. Our books are a celebration of Judaism, and our mission is to bring more light and love into the world—now more than ever.

Pre-order them NOW from your favorite retailer, and get ready to celebrate with us.

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One Night Stand With Benefits is LIVE!

I wrote One Night Stand With Benefits during what Brené Brown would call a “spiritual awakening.” The more popular term is “breakdown.” To be specific, a post-pandemic, job change, hormonal unraveling that took place slowly and surely over the course of more than a year.

Two separate editors asked me to make the book more light hearted. Another asked me to add emotion and deepen the point of view. These were big asks since my heart was heavy, and I didn’t want to get anywhere near my own emotions. Channeling two people falling in love? HAHAHAHAHA.

Fortunately, every time a pass of edits arrived, I was in a good place and crushed it.

So many things in this book changed from first draft to final file that I doubt my beta readers would recognize it! Thank goodness. (Especially for the 12 pages of proofreading changes. Best proofreader ever!)

I knit the book back together as I put myself back together, and I’m FREAKING THRILLED to report we’re both in great shape now. Xavier and Brittany always had plenty of steam, but now they have heart, too.

Pick up your copy of One Night Stand With Benefits and buckle up for a bump-y ride!

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ONE NIGHT STAND WITH BENEFITS

Whether it’s the boardroom or the bedroom, hotelier Xavier Rodriguez knows what he wants. When he has a chance to work with an incredible nonprofit—and they throw his personal life into the spotlight—he’s tasked to clean up his reputation. Which is exactly when delicious temptation steps into his path…

Between her burlesque troupe, launching her own business, and planning her bestie’s wedding—not to mention her hard-to-please, extra-privileged family—Brittany Adair has exactly zero interest in anything more than a bit of fun tonight. And with Xavier, it’s a lot of fun.

One incredible night, no strings. That’s all it was ever supposed to be. But soon, what started as a hot little hook-up results in them sharing a tiny little secret that’s due to arrive in about nine months…and what happens next is anyone’s guess—especially when emotions get involved.  

Cover Reveal: One Night Stand With Benefits

I’m thrilled to announce One Night Stand With Benefits, the 2nd book in the Unforgettable Fire series, has a cover! Links, a blurb, and a for-sure release date coming soon, but all signs point to April 17th as a great day to pour a glass of whatever you love and settle down with Brittany and Xavier for some steamy one-night stand/unexpected pregnancy fun.

The series starter, One Night Stand After Another, got an update!

Ha-linking the graphic to my book page showed me that I need to update the cover on MY website. One thing at a time…

Looking for a fun road trip with great snacks and even better sex? Grab your copy of One Night Stand After Another today! (And, yep! It’s in Kindle Unlimited. It’s also coming out in audiobook format on March 28th!)

10 Ways to Love Yourself Better

Hello, February! Whether you love Valentine’s Day or hate it…get ready! Personally, I love heart-shaped cookies, and I’m looking forward to making them with my son and his girlfriend. (Luckiest mom ever!) Which reminds me–I need to find a frosting recipe that tastes better than royal icing, but dries a little so the cookies don’t get smudged…

Anyway, if you’re wondering why it’s been so long since I posted, I fell into the pit of despair. It happens. I’m climbing out! Maybe you can relate?

But as I scaled the walls and paced a groove in the floor, I discovered a few self-lovely ways to be kind to myself. Then, as I was pondering newsletter topics this morning (sign up here if you want to be the first to know about my book news), I decided to share them. And to ask you if you’d like to share YOURS.

After all, you never know when you’re going to need a little boost–or where you might find it. If you’ve got a good tip, share it in the comments or find me on FB. I’m going to do a round-up for my next newsletter. Let’s share the self-love! As we’ve learned in a myriad of ways these last few years, we’re all in this together.

Need a boost? Try one of these 10 ways to love yourself better:

• TAKE YOUR VITAMINS. For some reason, I tend to forget on weekends or when I’m feeling blue. Is it subconscious self-sabotage? A break in routine? Who knows, but I feel better when I take them, and maybe you will, too. Be good to yourself.
• USE EXTRA LOTION. If your inner world takes a dive, you might as well pamper yourself on the outside. A nice rub and showing some love for the bod that carries you around in the world might change your state of mind.
• BREATHE. OMG I’ve been doing yoga for over a decade. I breathe ALL the dang time. Intentionally. Deeply. But last week I caught myself holding my breath at my desk…and I think maybe I’ve been doing it for a year. And breathing in my chest not my belly, which can lead to feeling anxious. I love Yoga with Adriene and subscribe to her app, but she has two incredible “Yoga for Anxiety” practices that are free on YouTube. Both of them start with alternate nostril breathing, which chills me out EVERY TIME. This simple 16-minute Yoga with Adriene practice is great before bed. This 30-minute practice is a little more advanced (hello, warrior three), but it will get you out of your head.
• DRINK TEA. Or whatever floats your boat. I like Yogi brand Honey Lavender Stress Relief (soothing serenity blend). Maybe it’s the ritual. Or the herbs. The heat? Dig in to whatever grounds you, and reach for it when you need it.
• FILL A LARGE CONTAINER OF WATER IN THE MORNING. Hydration is essential for good health, and I always drink more water when I fill up my enormous water bottle in the morning. I can’t count on myself to fill up eight individual glasses of water every day, but if it’s already there? Glug, glug, glug. Maybe it will help you hydrate, too.
• CHECK IN WITH YOURSELF. I’ve tried a bunch of different things to chart my emotional progress during this challenging year. This 3 Minute Positivity Journal is pretty cool. But journaling in the morning is my current go-to. I write down my wins, the things I’m grateful for, and things I’m trying to remember. When I do this, reading over the week makes me feel good. I learned the hard way that writing down what was troubling me every day made me feel worse when I read over the week. Framing your day, your week, your life, your SELF positively can make a huge difference!
• EAT DARK CHOCOLATE. Science backs up the happy-making effects of dark chocolate! The catch: it only takes a half-ounce, so we can’t use that as an excuse to eat the whole chocolate bar…at least not every day. But if you like chocolate, eating it can have positive physical and psychological effects. YES!
• REACH OUT TO A FRIEND. I’m grateful to have a few people I can count on for companionship (via text or whatever) on good days, bad days, and every day in-between. Just having someone know my state of mind makes me feel better. And staying connected with friends gives us the opportunity to be there for them, too, another mood booster.
• BUY THE GOOD SEX TOY. MANY years ago, a wise friend and I went to an upscale adult toy store, and she splurged on a vibrator with a price tag that made me blink…and blink…and blink. I’ve replaced a half dozen of my cheapo “BOBs” since then, and you know what my wise friend says about hers? “Worth every penny.” Oh look, they’re having a Valentine’s Day Sale… YOU ARE WORTH IT. I feel like this article in Vogue magazine was written just for us! Appreciating the Orgasm as an Act of Self-Care. YES!
• FIND A NEW BOOK. As a lifelong reader, I NEED to know what I’m reading next. Distraction is a great way to weather rough patches in life. (Full disclosure: I also discovered a few new TV series that made life better. The Morning Show. Minx. New Amsterdam. I also watched all of the Lord of the Rings movies again LOL.) I ask friends for recommendations, check out my Bookbub recommendations, read Smart Bitches Trashy Books reviews, and troll the Libby app for library options… If a new book gives you a mood boost, don’t deny yourself the pleasure!

So there you have it! 10 ways (and there are more, trust me) I’ve learned to love myself better. Have you got a good one? Something you’d like to share in case it gives someone else a much needed boost? Leave it in the comments or find me on FB. I’ll get a longer list together, and we can help each other rise above the pit of despair–and love the hell out of ourselves!

Chocolate Chai Chippers From ONE NIGHT STAND AFTER ANOTHER

So what’s happening now that ONE NIGHT STAND AFTER ANOTHER is out in the world? It’s getting rave reviews, which is delightful. It has over 4 stars on Goodreads! They don’t hold back their true opinions over there, so YAY!

Here’s my current favorite review:

EXACTLY! Fun and hot. YASSSSSSS!

I received the first pass of edits on Book 2, ONE NIGHT STAND WITH BENEFITS, also delightful. I thought that book was a disaster of darkness, but my editors liked it. They did notice the darkness, so I have my work cut out for me making it as much fun as ONE NIGHT STAND AFTER ANOTHER, but I have faith.

I also put a new recipe on the site! The Chocolate Chai Chippers from the Slip Stitch Café in Denver, CO. No, it’s not a real place, but Clara and Zane visit it in the book! The cookies are irresistible, if I do say so. Chewy, chunky, oaty-to-the-tooth chocolate chip cookies with just enough spice to make them interesting. If you make them, let me know what you think.

Next up is the Slip Stitch Sandwich, or at least the Green Goddess dressing that goes on it. I’m a sucker for ranch dressing and anything green. And veggie burgers. And spicy things!

Aaaaand I have to get cranking on Book Three. It’s in me, somewhere. I can feel it. Kind of like when you know you’re forgetting something but can’t quite figure out what room to enter to trigger your memory. I’ll have to wander around on the page until I find what I need. It’s hard to keep showing up when the magic doesn’t appear. I’ve started this book at least twice already! Maybe three times. But I’ll start again.

The joy is in the process. I give myself permission to suck. Progress not perfection. It’s always hard. I always do it. All of that. Pretty sure I wrote a blog called “Ride the Hard,” about a million years ago…

Yes, we can do hard things. Eating cookies helps! Enjoy the Chocolate Chai Chippers. Fall will be here before we know it…

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ONE NIGHT STAND AFTER ANOTHER is here at last! I’m thrilled to introduce readers to Clara and Zane and their cross-country road trip filled with hot nights, incredible food, and outrageous yarn destinations. Yep-you read that right. YARN. Clara is a crocheting fiend who finds endless creative inspiration in Zane’s mad skills in bed.

Are you looking for a fun, sexy escape from reality? ONE NIGHT STAND AFTER ANOTHER is exactly what you need.

“A fun, sexy, sweet romance read that went by too quick. I loved it and didn’t want it to end.” -Leah Hines 

“This book has all the feels. Intelligent leads, strong unbreakable characters, suspense, and of course love!” -Di Budo

“I thought this book was so much fun to read, and it was the perfect amount of romance, humor and smut (honestly a golden trio if I do say so myself).” -Unhinged Bibliophile 

“This is a funny, cute and spicy story, it made me laugh so much, Clara and Zane are so perfect together, their sizzling chemistry is off the charts, and the banter is epic, I couldn’t get enough of them together.” -When Vane Reads 

What’s the book REALLY about? Here’s the blurb:

Clara Duke lives to crochet wearable art. But right this second, she’s looking at the one guy who has the uncanny ability to unravel her in every possible way. Zane Brampton. He broke her heart in high school and now wants to make it up to her—in a single night. Just being in the same room as him feels dangerously volatile. A whole night with this delectable, gorgeous man would be nothing less than a total sexpocalypse. But oh, what a way to go.

The sight of Clara and her mouthwatering curves might actually kill restaurateur Zane. Ten years ago, their volcanic chemistry exploded… taking their social circle along with it. But Zane hasn’t forgotten the heat—and this feels almost like fate. He’ll be damned if he’ll let her run from their connection again. And he might just have found his chance to prove he deserves more than just one night…

Now Zane is driving Clara to California to meet her professional dreams. But between the road, the chocolate, and the ridiculously hot sex, Clara risks getting tangled up with her not-so-one-night-stand. And worse, Zane might just be the thread that snaps all of her perfectly crocheted plans.

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Amanda

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Living in New Orleans in the 90s

My husband and I graduated from the Culinary Institute of America in 1998 and moved to New Orleans to work in the French Quarter. He had a job at Commander’s Palace, and I’d been hired as assistant pastry chef at Bayona. Both of these restaurants topped the lists in the city, and we were over-the-moon excited.

Why did we pick New Orleans? Well, Ben said it would be fun…and we’d probably had some wine. Maybe a bottle or two? As it turns out, he wasn’t serious about such a big move, but I made inquiries, got responses, and off we went.

We lived there for two years before moving back to Western New York to raise a family. What do I remember most? The smell of the French Quarter: hot sidewalk, vomit, dog crap, powdered sugar, onion ring grease, and possibility. A never-ending prep list. Before long Ben joined me at Bayona, working the line during the day, while I worked around the corner in the bakeshop. The pastry chef left, and I begged for her job. I got it, too. What a rush…pastry chef of one of the top 3 restaurants in the French Quarter!

(Sometimes, I want that job back. Because the job I did at 26, when I was so green and full of myself, could not compare to the job I would do now…but all the baking and living I did after we moved back to NY is what would have helped me kick butt harder. Ah, life!)

I have writer friends who LOVE research (I’m looking at you, Jessica Topper), but I like to write what I know. I dig in deep when I have to (I worked at a winery for a day while writing LUSCIOUS), but I often lean toward familiar passions: food, drink, family, love.

Our time in New Orleans inspired MAKE ME, TAKE ME, and I wrote about quite a few real-life experiences (details changed to protect the innocent!) in that book. What I wouldn’t give for the blue cheese burger from Port Of Call, a mango daiquiri from any random French Quarter corner, beignets from Morning Call, the mushroom madeira cream goat toasts from Bayona…another chance to nail that dessert menu. (I DID get my tea leaves read. I did NOT do anything even close to what Quin and Betsy do in that bar…or the elevator…or everywhere else in the French Quarter. Fun fact: this book was so hot, I had to cut sex scenes during edits LOL.)

Here’s the blurb:

He's every fantasy she's ever had... Betsy Mouton knows that easy doesn't last forever. She's working her butt off to launch the Last Call Café so her family can leave the New Orleans bar business—and its heartaches—behind forever. That is, until the hottest one-night-stand of her life shows up next door, twice as uncompromising and two million times hotter, offering to buy the bar and send the Moutons to Easy Street.  Hotelier Quinton James has never forgotten the unbelievably hot night he and Betsy shared. Never forgotten how beautifully she submitted to him, or how he found the only peace he's ever known in her arms. Now that Betsy is the only thing standing in the way of his new hotel, she's the one in control. But there's more at stake than her cafe or laying their past to rest—Quin wants a future. With her. All he has to do is convince her...one sensual command at a time.

Want to experience New Orleans through the eyes of a young chef struggling to make ends meet while falling in lust with the hotelier next door who is trying to ruin her life? Get the eBook for .99 on all platforms today ONLY!

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